Indians have claimed to be changing their stereotyped thoughts regarding caste, color, and many other things but still, many cities and villages follow these practices and myths. Marriage is no way away from many stereotyped thoughts that have adversely affected the married life of women. Marriage is supposed to be a new chapter in any girl’s life as her whole life is about to change, but in India, it happens to knock down a girl’s dreams and stuck her up with the household chores. Here are some Marriage facts that couples must know:
IMITATE YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW:
When you are in your new home after the wedding, your Boyfriend is now your Husband who would want you to be like his mother. You would have to imbibe her qualities in you. Time and again you would be compared to your mother-in-law. You have to understand your partner’s emotional needs too as women are not the emotional being.
EARNING DOESN’T DECIDE THE BOSS OF THE HOUSE:
Even after you earn more than your spouse, the boss of the house will always be your Husband. Whatever the woman does will never be considered superior to what the man does. The new generation is smarter, and they don’t do such discrimination, but the older women most likely do that. It’s like taking a revenge of what has been done to them; they will pass on.
FAMILY COMPRISES OF HIS PARENTS AND YOURS ARE JUST GUESTS:
The most common issue in every other household in India. The family you live with, your in-laws are your new family, and the previous ones are now guests for you. You have to be the ideal daughter-in-law while your husband has to be always the apple of your parent’s eyes.
ARGUMENTS ARE A MUST:
It is rightly said that where there is love, there are fights. Marriage is based on no other concept than Love. So there will be fights and arguments on small topics, but the key is not to let go. Women do expect man’s apology first and so to fulfill her emotional needs the husband must apologize as it will only save their marriage.