HERE ARE A FEW THINGS THAT SHOULD ALWAYS BE A SECRET
Some things are better off kept to ourselves as top secret and not shared with others. There are a few things that should be kept a secret. If you share all the personal stuff with others, it might cause unnecessary confusion. Opening up about your secrets might lead you to question them and worry for no good reason. It can also make you seem like a pusher. Everybody needs a side that is just for themselves. That’s the healthy way to go; no matter who says what. So, here are the top 5 things that should be kept secret and not revealed:
1. YOUR INNERMOST THOUGHTS
Innermost thoughts are our purest and sacred thoughts. These might be good or evil and it is not at all necessary that everybody would agree with them. Every individual is different and has a different thinking process. Thus, one individual might not agree with another. So, in order to avoid conflict and chaos, it is best to keep our thoughts to ourselves and to keep them secret and not impose them on others.
2. YOUR PHILANTHROPY
Everybody needs to believe in something to be able to go on with their lives in a healthy way. We all have things that make our lives easier and soothe our souls. Any kind of inferences you make from your life concern you and only you. They are only what you see from your own little window in life. In short, there is no need to share them or push them onto others.
3. YOUR GOALS
Don’t reveal your most ambitious plans or goals. Keep silent about these until you’ve actually managed to fulfill them. Such plans often have weak spots and ill-thought out parts which you haven’t noticed; therefore, the chances are that someone could pick them apart quite easily, leading you to become too disheartened to even try to overcome them. So, instead of boasting around before even achieving your goals; it is best to keep them a secret and work hard to achieve them.
4. YOUR LIFESTYLE
Never reveal the secrets of your lifestyle. It’s not worth bragging about how you’ve gone on a diet, or overcome your habit of sleeping too much in the morning or stopped indulging your appetite for sex. If you’ve given up on worldly pleasures for the sake of spiritual goals, then it makes no sense to talk about this — your emotional condition needs to be harmonious, and such a desire to impress others and receive praise is a sign that it is not.
5. Family’s Dirty Laundry
It’s never worth revealing any conflicts or problems in your family life to others. Always bear in mind: the less you divulge such secrets about your family to others, the stronger it will be. Such things can only ever be resolved within the privacy of your own home, between loved ones. The more you complain to others about them the harder they will be to overcome.