Making a girl attracted to you can be as easy if you try out these seduction techniques and persuasion methods. Remember they are ethical and aren’t manipulative, but will, in the end, make a girl subconsciously be attracted to you.
1) Have a life
Make your personal life interesting, and girls will flock.
2) Have an interesting hobby or passion
Having a passion will make you seem more attractive, plus it adds respect to tip #1. Your hobby can be anything that you’re passionate about, just make sure it’s real passion and not faked. When you are passionate about something, your girl will notice. There’s something infinitely sexy about a guy with an intense passion towards something.
3) Have excellent hygiene
This is number one tip to make a girl attracted instantly to you. Smell good. No need to douse yourself with half a gallon of Axe body spray, just smell presentable. Girls fall for great smelling guys.
4) Ask her to do things for you – Benjamin Franklin effect
This is a secret tip, a bit manipulative, but not anything evil or harmful. Just ask your girl to do something for you. There is a psychological effect known as the Benjamin Franklin effect that says if you ask a girl to do something for you and she does it, she subconsciously likes you a bit more. This is because when we do stuff for people, our brain thinks since we do something for someone, we must like them. But also don’t overdo it though or she will feel like you’re using her.
5) Make her laugh
This is the greatest tip. Girls love laughing, and the more you can make them laugh, the higher up in her social chain you will seen. This act of yours will prove that you are intellectually sharp and humorous, which is a desirable trait. Also, see where her eyes are going when she laughs, her eyes will tell if she is interested in you.
6) Be her friend
First befriend her, even if she is in the friend zone for months. Do things that make her smile. You can leave little notes in her car, also send her good morning texts. Talk her through her problems and sympathize with her. In fact, in doing these things, you’re practically halfway dating her already. You just have to tell her you to want her for the rest of your life, and then you’re set.
7) Break the touch barrier
This is a good subconscious psychological tip that can work amazingly. Ask your girl for something and grab it out of her hand, or make up some game that requires touch and plays it with her. Come up with the handshake if you have to. This act will make her know that that you’re willing to reach her in a nonsexual way because you feel comfortable around her. Also your this act will make you know her reaction. If she seems disgusted or scared, don’t touch her anymore.
8 ) Tell her secrets
Build up trust issues with her. Tell her a secret, something personal about yourself that not many people know. This will open the door for confidence because as you tell her things, she will notice that you trust her, which in turn will make her trust you. Psychology says, we like and trust people who trust us first, because we have a natural instinct to be wary of new people and to not trust them, so when you prove you believe her, she will start to reciprocate in the same fashion.
9) Give her all of your attention
In this materialistic world, your attention can go anywhere. But you will be glad to know that it is one of the most valuable things you can give a girl. If you want her, pay attention to her. Look her in the eyes when she’s talking to you and make a mental note of all the stuff she’s saying. If you can mention those things in later conversations, she’ll feel special, and maybe she starts to enjoy your presence too.
10) Boost up your confidence
Be self-aware and know what makes you feel awkward and insecure and also work on yourself to improve your confidence. Become more secure and confident who you are as a person. Girls like confident boys.